I know you are under the misconception that you have not celebrated Kwanzaa, but I am here to tell you, you have.
Ujima tells us to work collectively and make our brothers and sisters problems, our problems. Although this formal idea of collective work sounds new, you have been practicing this principal for a long time.
There is a leech......I mean friend or relative that calls on you, with their daily drama. You never turn them away. Even if they are grown and living off of their 76 year old mother's pension. It is a challenge but, you take on this poor old sad sack doing all you can to get them off your back.......I mean back on track. Sing your praises you have done good work, Ujima.